Reaching for the Right Buttons

At a house party last week:

AARON:
What turns you on?

REN:
You mean.. Apart from the usual… er hem, pressure points?

AARON:
YOU tell ME..

REN:
Maybe with men it’s different.. I guess it’s only one place that ultimately really matters. Haha..

AARON:
Well, men ARE men. So tell me..

REN:
Okay, apart from the OBVIOUS, (I brushed my hair back and stroked my ears and neck) with his tongue and lips… here, down this way, around… (I spazzed myself out..) hoooo!



AARON:
Hahahahaha…

REN:
Given the guy is not butt ugly, if he does it, and DOES IT WELL, I’m a goner. Take me! Take me now! Hahaha!
And actually, I would appreciate it if a man would tell me what, where and how he wants it. I mean if it’s not going his way, I would prefer it if he just directs me. Take oral sex for example. I’m sure different men like it differently.

(AARON nods.)

REN:
Focus on the head and/or whole shaft,
Teeth and/or tongue,
Balls licking or not,
Spit and/or swallow.
Same goes for women.. Men are not totally to blame if they are left guessing what the woman wants. It IS more complicated with women. And if something doesn’t work for them and they don’t let the men know, it‘s really the their fault. If the women don’t care, why should the men?

AARON:
True, true..

REN:
However, I usually let the guy go freehand for awhile. Because you’ll never know.. I just, might, like it.